HELP, I’m stuck and can’t get out!

As adults is there such a thing with getting to that point in your life where you just feel stuck? Feeling stuck to the point where you don’t have the answers; to not being able to find the answers or a clue to figure it out – this can be multiple things by the way. Then, you find yourself gasping at the very moment of knowing or saying to yourself I don’t know what to do. I don’t know how to get to that place where I want to be in my life right now. I think to myself sometimes if it’s just me feeling this way since I’m always trying to analyze practically everything and figure it out. What do people do when they reach to that point in their life? Surely, someone out there has these moments where they feel stuck in a situation or situations at the time. Yes, eventually you figure something out and move on and noting it in your mind as a lesson in life. Can someone feel normal to say to the universe that they don’t know how to get to that place, or to achieve that goal without appearing to be whining, complaining or negative or who doesn’t want to get ahead in life.

Well, I’m learning that It’s okay to have those moments. Women are always known as being more emotional thinkers than men but I know that men have these sticky moments as well. When you do have these sticky moments don’t brush them off think about it, let it out or whatever it is you need to do at the time. If nothing is figured out right away, be patient and go back to it again at another time. In other words don’t ignore it because the point is you are experiencing that moment(s) for a reason. We know sometimes things just don’t go right even when trying our best to keep it all together that is minus human mistakes. They are more rain drizzling or for some, downpours in life that it can get too overwhelming. It is good to know how to keep your head above water, just as not to stay in the water for too long and drown in it. My past sticky moments I’ve been in that water a lot of times even felt drowned in it more than once. Thankfully, I was able to pull my way out of it and not physically and mentally die. If I did drown myself in the waters, I’m sure it wouldn’t be a peaceful death. Nowadays, I do feel it but I am learning how to deal with it. So, I really feel that all of the other things that we feel stuck in is just mud.

Deep I know, but it’s healthy to go there every now and then.